IDENTITY-LEVEL COACHING
Realign Who You Are.
Unlock Who You’re Meant to Be.
If you’ve tried to push harder but still feel stuck, it’s not you — it’s your system. I help you realign at the identity level so growth becomes natural.
WHY YOU’RE STILL STUCK
You’re Not Broken.
Your System Is Misaligned.
You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, done the inner work.
You’re self-aware and driven — yet somehow, the same loops keep pulling you back.
The truth? Most methods only treat symptoms, not the system that drives them.
The Cost of Staying Stuck:
⏳ Energy drained
💡 Opportunities missed
💥 Progress that feels forced
WHY YOU’RE STILL STUCK
The Real Reason You’re Stuck And How to Finally Break Free.
“The issue isn’t effort. It’s identity misalignment.”
When parts of you want different things, you lose momentum. One foot on the gas, one on the brake.
I help you realign your system so your choices, voice, and actions move in the same direction — naturally.
Does this sound familiar?
✅ You know what to do but struggle to follow through.
✅ You feel torn between safety and growth.
✅ You chase clarity yet get lost in overthinking.
✅ You’ve had wins — but they always feel forced.
YOUR PATH TO REALIGNMENT
The Authentic-Self Blueprint
You don’t need more hacks or quick fixes.
You need a process that realigns your identity, resolves inner conflicts, and frees the version of you that moves with clarity and confidence.
That’s exactly what The Authentic-Self Blueprint was created for.
A 3-month private coaching experience where you’ll…
Reclaim clarity → quiet the noise, hear what truly matters.
Resolve inner conflicts → end the tug-of-war between competing parts of you.
Access authentic power → act from congruence, not pressure.
Phase I — Reveal
Uncover the hidden loyalties and protective parts driving your patterns. By mapping your identity, you’ll see why old strategies never worked — and open the door to real, lasting change.
Phase II — Realign
Integrate the parts of you that pull in different directions. Through identity statements and conscious choice design, your values, voice, and actions start to move as one — creating ease, flow, and natural momentum.
Phase III — Recode
Lock in your alignment with new habits, boundaries, and communication. Instead of forcing progress, you’ll embody growth that feels steady, authentic, and true to who you are.
BEYOND MINDSET
Why This Works
(When Everything Else Hasn’t)
Most personal growth work stays on the surface. Hacks and mindset tricks might bring short wins — but they don’t last.
Why? Because they never touch the root: your identity.
That’s where real, lasting transformation begins.
What Makes This Different:
My approach blends identity-level coaching, NLP, parts work, and provocative coaching — direct, loving, and no fluff. Together, these tools reveal truth, dissolve inner conflict, and realign your system for sustainable change.
The Alignment Model:
- See → Notice hidden parts and patterns.
- Integrate → Resolve inner conflicts.
- Choose → Take aligned action.
- Stabilize → Hold your new identity.
CLIENT TRANSFORMATIONS
Before & After: What Clients Experience
Clients often arrive feeling stuck, scattered, and disconnected. They leave with calm, clarity, and a deeper connection to who they truly are.
Before |
After |
|---|---|
| ❌ “Why can’t I make myself do it?” | ✅ Quiet, steady clarity |
| ❌ Self‑criticism and inner chaos | ✅ Calm, confident decisions |
| ❌ Endless research and decision fatigue | ✅ Boundaries that feel natural |
| ❌ Change that doesn’t stick | ✅ Visible results with less forcing |
Identity-Level Change
You’re Not Broken. You’re Just Misaligned
This isn’t about adding more tools.
It’s about going deeper — realigning your identity so growth feels natural, not forced.
The Authentic-Self Blueprint helps you reclaim clarity, confidence, and your authentic voice — without endless hacks or surface fixes.
WHO THIS WORK IS FOR
Ready For The Deeper Work?
This is for you if…
- You’re growth-oriented, ambitious, and tired of circling.
- You’ve done the books, podcasts, and journaling — and now want depth, not quick fixes.
- You’re ready to be challenged (lovingly) and to own your choices.
This is not for you if…
- You’re looking for quick dopamine hits or copy-paste scripts.
- You’re not willing to explore honestly or take action between sessions.
- You prefer surface-level accountability over identity-level change.
QUESTIONS YOU MIGHT HAVE
Questions You Might Have
“I’ve tried coaching. Why would this be different?”
Because we don’t coach behavior. We work at the identity level — the place where behavior actually begins.
“What if I get overwhelmed?”
We go at your pace. Sessions are grounded and structured, and each shift is stabilized before moving on.
“Do I need to be ‘spiritual’?”
No. Bring your worldview. We work with what’s true for you — not belief templates.
Newsletter
The Realignment Letter
Weekly notes to help you stop coaching symptoms and start realigning the system.
• Identity Debugger prompts • Client lessons (anonymized) • Practical tools I actually use
MEET YOUR COACH
About Your Coach
I don’t coach who you think you are. I coach who you’re meant to become.
I’m Tim Altenhofen — Transformation & Identity Coach for ambitious professionals, seekers, and entrepreneurs who’ve done the inner work but still feel stuck.
My specialty is identity realignment — helping you resolve the inner conflicts behind your patterns so you can move forward with calm clarity and authentic power.
Credentials & Credibility
✅ Certified NLP Coach
✅ Trained in Parts-Work & System Alignment
✅ 8+ years of coaching experience
✅ 100+ clients guided through identity-level change
✅ Confidential, judgment-free 1:1 container
PROOF & RESULTS
This Is What Happens When You Realign
These aren’t surface-level results. This is deep identity realignment — the kind that shifts how you lead, decide, and show up in every part of life.
⏱ Avg. time for Breakthrough: 2 hours
⚡ 89% report more clarity and energy
🎯 2–3 sessions to first visible change
“This work changed my business. I stopped sabotaging the one idea I had. One call gave me the clarity I’d been chasing for months.”
“I didn’t expect so much to shift in one session. That new awareness created a space where I could finally be honest and stop shutting down. I finally have the parts on my side.”
“I know what I want from me. It’s not a script anymore—it’s natural. My work and family feel different and less heavy. It’s not therapy. It’s real change.”
“Because of the container and your ability to hold real space, I now have much more access to my inner strength and true voice. I lead conversations with respect and authority.”
Ready to Realign?
Ready to Realign?
One conversation could change how you see yourself — and what’s possible for you.
One conversation can change how you see yourself —and what’s truly possible.